четверг, 1 марта 2012 г.

Don Quixote, Female Portrait

If you care about socionic you've probably known already about different types of human nature. I've always been described as Intuitive logical extravert (The Seeker or The Inventor) and this is just insane how pretty accurate these descriptions fit me.
Workaholic with tonnes of ideas, most of the time from completely different fields. I want to do a lot of stuff and being responsible for those, just to feel important. That's just the way I get used to live.

Two birds in the bush [he often chooses this option instead of one in his hand]. He is a genius at finding new opportunities and possibilities. What he has completed always seems to him less important compared to the dawning perspectives which are irresistible an inexhaustible. Scientists of this type tend to procrastinate with the publishing of the results of their research, thinking that the greatest discoveries are still ahead. He lives for the future; meanwhile being not acknowledged does not intimidate him. He chooses to do what is interesting rather than what is lucrative.
No time for procrastinating, no time for self-observation, I'm starting to fall in to the deep depression and it usually doesn't end up well. 
Some of them you can confidently call workaholics. In their job, they find an outlet, striving to prove to those surrounding that they are worthy of love and respect, and etc., that they are smart and successful. When in contact with DON QUIXOTE – whether they are a woman or a man - as an insurmountable obstacle most frequently emerges that they have a chronic lack of time. This could result in that, being close at hand, DON QUIXOTE practically disappears from your field of vision. If you already have heard several times: “Let’s do it at another time, today I have no time” or “No, just not right now”, the situation is bad.

Having many pals I don't know actually how to deal with people, I mean how relationships work. Actually NO, I KNOW how to deal with people, being charming and kind but when it comes to close relationship with opposite gender, I'm like: what? do you want to drink, have a chat about something intriguing and interesting? ooohhh you know nothing about these terms, how did you end up like this? hdbhdss it's easy *roll the eyes* In moments like this, people think I'm just an arrogant twat, who thinks she's better than anyone.
 A woman of DON QUIXOTE strives to be ideally beautiful, ideally intelligent, ideally well-bred, in one word, flawless in all aspects. She tries to become the embodiment of perfection. DONKA behaves coldly, unapproachable, for a long time, keeping a big distance between herself and her fans. From one side, she knows her worth. From the other, does not understand how to establish relationships with men, since she does not see what is happening. She wants to be loved by everyone, and, in the depth of her soul, she dreams of ideal, perfect relationships. Societal stereotypes make the existence of DONKA not very simple. She, herself not understanding why, is always “somehow unique”, not similar to the rest. And it is her strangeness that often results in her isolated position and difficulties in choosing a partner. Nonetheless, good company and true friends, where she is treated as a smart woman and her nonstandard reasoning is listened to, often is, for her, an excellent way out.
ENTps do not know how to keep the right psychological distance with people. This becomes especially noticeable during long term interaction. One day they can be friendly and the next day they can be completely opposite. They often behave unceremoniously and can rudely butt in on others conversations. ENTps can also find it difficult to evaluate how others feel about them and therefore can make mistakes when choosing friends.
The seeker? Seeker of an attention? hell yes

Recharge. He needs to feel emotional enthusiasm and ardor, and thus needs permanent sensory and emotional "recharge". He is unable to supply it himself, so he depends a lot on his surrounding. If nobody feeds him with impressions and positive emotions (nobody can do it as well as his dual The Mediator) – he mopes about life, loses ability to work and taste for life. To compensate for the absence of his dual he begins to mix with a lot of friends, becomes active in social projects, starts up clubs or scientific schools (Sigmund Freud, a representative of this type, invented the concept of sublimation to explain this fact).
Danger. Critical situations pep him up as much as good others’ emotions. The more emotions and panic there is around him, the more active and assertive he becomes. It is impossible to intimidate him – an attempt to do so produces just the opposite outcome. He willingly takes responsibility in critical situations; however, in peaceful and quiet conditions he starts to doubt his right to occupy a responsible position, gets frustrated by the competition and leaves.
And not to mention this:

During her childhood, she even behaves not like a girl should: often runs around with boys, climbs trees and garages, plays war (fights pretend battles, not the card game), scorning traditional girlish entertainment. As a general rule, she will remain a “boy” for her entire life.
Also badly matches with the image of a woman her constant readiness to stand up for others, so as to reestablish righteousness. Not paying attention to her own fragility, a woman of this type can even engage in a fight, defending a girlfriend, a pregnant woman, a child, or a dog. In one word, a person, who carries a societal threat, will not stop her, if she deems it necessary to establish justice.
My parents even been told that they're waiting for a boy, but then baby me happened. Somehow it still affects me.

But nevertheless I'm great, don't judge me too hard.

Undifferentiated feeling. He believes that all people in their essence are kind and love one another. Therefore he looks funny enough when the situation requires initiative in expressing feelings – they are not his line at all. 
One more peculiarity is the element of chaos and destruction that ENTps bring to every field of their activity. This is especially noticeable in well established institutions where strong discipline is commonplace. However, they implement this chaotic element creatively, generating reform from the destruction. Because of this quality ENTps often become leaders.

 I'm done. Long post is long.

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